Comments on: YOUR biggest FEAR http://practimate.com/blog/your-biggest-fear/ World-Class Pre-Marital Training For Practicing Muslim Singles in the West Mon, 06 Sep 2010 07:02:46 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 By: Rosy http://practimate.com/blog/your-biggest-fear/comment-page-4/#comment-2920 Rosy Tue, 23 Feb 2010 17:49:53 +0000 http://practimate.com/blog/?p=101#comment-2920 Assalamu alaykum wa rehmatullah! I am 23 years old. I have been looking for a husband for many months now and have begun to get worried that I may never find one. Please make Dua for me. Jazak Allah khair! Assalamu alaykum wa rehmatullah! I am 23 years old. I have been looking for a husband for many months now and have begun to get worried that I may never find one. Please make Dua for me. Jazak Allah khair!

]]> By: sana http://practimate.com/blog/your-biggest-fear/comment-page-4/#comment-2813 sana Thu, 28 Jan 2010 21:02:12 +0000 http://practimate.com/blog/?p=101#comment-2813 biggest fear: that, God forbid, i may never get married. biggest worry: i worry about finding a God conscious man. even if i do find a good muslim man, there is so much that goes into making a marriage not just work but work great. i worry that while i have the drive to work for towards a great marriage, my husband may not. stay up at night worrying: about the possibility that i may be alone forever. may Allah never test me in that way... biggest fear: that, God forbid, i may never get married.
biggest worry: i worry about finding a God conscious man. even if i do find a good muslim man, there is so much that goes into making a marriage not just work but work great. i worry that while i have the drive to work for towards a great marriage, my husband may not.
stay up at night worrying: about the possibility that i may be alone forever. may Allah never test me in that way…

]]> By: amatullah http://practimate.com/blog/your-biggest-fear/comment-page-4/#comment-2808 amatullah Fri, 22 Jan 2010 18:33:06 +0000 http://practimate.com/blog/?p=101#comment-2808 my biggest fear probably (may Allah forbid) I won't find a sincere brother who doesn't like talking to sisters unnecessarily rather get a hubby (may Allah forbid) who doesn't lower his gaze ( in other words try & cheat me when I'm not around OR WHEN I'M AROUND !!! ) for the sake of Allah, unnecessarily converse & jokes with non-mahram & doesn't have any sense of ghirah & will not love me & only me for the sake of Allah !!! Thats ^^ what my worry is . When a man knows many sisters he doesn't like his wife because he saw these ghair mahrams wearing broaches, showy hijab , make-up & all to attract non-mahrams even though his wife strives to please him ALL way possible because shaytan makes her unattractive to him & make hayaless, non-mahram sisters attractive to him. This free-society's 'free-mixing' islamic classes & all CAN destroy a happy family easily. .............. Thats what make me stay up at night worrying . Another thing which makes me so worried is if I find a sincere brother like the way I want will my family approve (if he is from different culture etc) ? Will my parents be happy with us (me & him) ? My family is not that practising. They don't understand a brother who only prays 5 times a day also indulge into many sins like music, bollywood movies, ribah etc (examples I've at my home) & my parents think a brother who prays 5 times is good enough for me , he doesn't have to keep beard etc !!! Make dua for me everyone though I'm not in 25-30 age group. *sad* my biggest fear probably (may Allah forbid) I won’t find a sincere brother who doesn’t like talking to sisters unnecessarily rather get a hubby (may Allah forbid) who doesn’t lower his gaze ( in other words try & cheat me when I’m not around OR WHEN I’M AROUND !!! ) for the sake of Allah, unnecessarily converse & jokes with non-mahram & doesn’t have any sense of ghirah & will not love me & only me for the sake of Allah !!!

Thats ^^ what my worry is .

When a man knows many sisters he doesn’t like his wife because he saw these ghair mahrams wearing broaches, showy hijab , make-up & all to attract non-mahrams even though his wife strives to please him ALL way possible because shaytan makes her unattractive to him & make hayaless, non-mahram sisters attractive to him. This free-society’s ‘free-mixing’ islamic classes & all CAN destroy a happy family easily. ………….. Thats what make me stay up at night worrying . Another thing which makes me so worried is if I find a sincere brother like the way I want will my family approve (if he is from different culture etc) ? Will my parents be happy with us (me & him) ? My family is not that practising. They don’t understand a brother who only prays 5 times a day also indulge into many sins like music, bollywood movies, ribah etc (examples I’ve at my home) & my parents think a brother who prays 5 times is good enough for me , he doesn’t have to keep beard etc !!!

Make dua for me everyone though I’m not in 25-30 age group. *sad*

]]> By: AREENA ALI http://practimate.com/blog/your-biggest-fear/comment-page-4/#comment-2800 AREENA ALI Thu, 07 Jan 2010 10:34:51 +0000 http://practimate.com/blog/?p=101#comment-2800 Asalam-o-alaikum,hope u r well. i m young girl of 20.wana mary soon but family is not willing to give me in marriage right now.but they say ok v r finding 4 u.but i m just worried as the one my father will choose i wil have to say yes becoz i do hijab so to b honest before marriage i can't know exactly what a man is upto.so my father can choose better.but my father isn't that much religious.but i m.n i wana mary someone who practice himself and also make me more practicing one inshallah............................................................. Asalam-o-alaikum,hope u r well.
i m young girl of 20.wana mary soon but family is not willing to give me in marriage right now.but they say ok v r finding 4 u.but i m just worried as the one my father will choose i wil have to say yes becoz i do hijab so to b honest before marriage i can’t know exactly what a man is upto.so my father can choose better.but my father isn’t that much religious.but i m.n i wana mary someone who practice himself and also make me more practicing one inshallah…………………………………………………….

]]> By: muslimah http://practimate.com/blog/your-biggest-fear/comment-page-4/#comment-2794 muslimah Wed, 06 Jan 2010 14:17:54 +0000 http://practimate.com/blog/?p=101#comment-2794 fears husband will cheat on me.... divorce me.... control me... leave me for another woman.... i dont want to be a co-wife or a divorcee... fears

husband will cheat on me….
divorce me….
control me…
leave me for another woman….
i dont want to be a co-wife or a divorcee…

]]> By: Salwa http://practimate.com/blog/your-biggest-fear/comment-page-4/#comment-2762 Salwa Sat, 19 Dec 2009 16:52:08 +0000 http://practimate.com/blog/?p=101#comment-2762 1) Marrying someone who is completely different to what they were when we were introduced. Someone who has set expectations and expects me to fit into thier life rather then make compramises. 2)I wont be able to please my husband, i wont be what he has expected. i suppose in all aspects.. physically, in my mentality and religiously. People all have expectations and i am worried i wont be anything like what they expected. 3) Marrying the wrong person, we are wrong for each other. therefore unable to please one another and not make each other happy. 1) Marrying someone who is completely different to what they were when we were introduced. Someone who has set expectations and expects me to fit into thier life rather then make compramises.

2)I wont be able to please my husband, i wont be what he has expected. i suppose in all aspects.. physically, in my mentality and religiously. People all have expectations and i am worried i wont be anything like what they expected.

3) Marrying the wrong person, we are wrong for each other. therefore unable to please one another and not make each other happy.

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