Comments on: Your Biggest Fear: UNEDITED VIDEO RESPONSE

By: Fragile

Fragile — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 16:47:30 +0000

I am currently 23 years old, and I fear that if I become 25 and still do not get any good proposals for marriage then I wouldn’t be attractive enough any more for a man to marry me [Allahu Aalam].

By: Abdullah

Abdullah — Sat, 03 Oct 2009 00:36:28 +0000

This a wonderful and a very nice advice given by the Sheikh. Jazakallah Khair sheikh. I hope to keep them in mind and develop myself first before expecting a lot from my future partner.

Salaam all.

By: zamzam

zamzam — Mon, 13 Jul 2009 10:45:17 +0000

Assalamu aleykum warahmatullah
wbr I dream a bout the most having agreat marriage based on good niyah
a great pious hasband who takes marriage as something valuable and willing to sacrifice life because of Allah.
make Allah number one and prioty ever .
my wants are to be able to give service as Allahserant A wife, a mother and best friend to my hasband and I really want some one who respect me and some one who are with me when Iam sik and and olso wan Iam happy some one give advace to me and when I need and some who askes for advace to his wife.the resen that iam saying that is that I was geting marriage berfore but that marriage was not secessful marriage. and I dont understand why that happen .but en some how i understand Allhamdulillah every think happens for the sack of Allah and thier no tahadar to each other.(sabr-et means patience)thank you for such a hjelpful insigt.
may Allah reward you and all those who are involved for such a freat effort for our muslim ummah Inshaa Allaah . Assalamucaleykum warahmatullah wabarakatu to sister and to the brothes. allaah yahfidakum amiin

By: Nadirah

Nadirah — Sun, 12 Jul 2009 02:43:10 +0000

ASA- I appreciate what he said about marriage not making you a better Muslim. I realize that it’s not a good idea for me to marry anyone with significant issues that I feel will be worked out by completing 50% of your Deen. If you are unsuitable prior to marriage you will be unsuitable after marriage. We are all accountable for our own affairs, we cannot expect our mate to get us to Jannah.

Ma Salaama, Nadirah

By: Sumaira

Sumaira — Mon, 22 Jun 2009 01:27:16 +0000

salamo alykum warahmatullah,
i think the video was helpfull i do agree with Sheikh yasir said, but the video was cut off. May u please talk about Istikhara i look forward to more advices.
SALAMO ALYKUM

By: Lin

Lin — Sun, 21 Jun 2009 03:59:07 +0000

Assalammualaikum,

Thank you for such a helpful insight. May Allah reward you and all those involved for such a great effort for our muslim ummah, Insyaallah.

Feeling insecure is normal for everyone. Whether the marriage turns out to be a happy good marriage or not, it is all what Allah says is best for us and to prepare us for the world hereafter. Hence we should not worry if we had made Istikhara prayer and asks for HIS guidance. The main thing is to get a correct perspective of the role of marriage in our life as muslims.

Marriage is both a test in life and education institution. This is where we learn to be sabr(patience) and control our nafs. In doing so we not only may increase our iman but also make us get nearer to Allah SWT, insyaallah.

There’s a saying ‘If one wants to know what sabr(patience) really mean, get married, it will teach us the real meaning of sabr(patience)’