Comments on: 10 Crucial Answers for Single Brothers - Part 2 http://practimate.com/blog/10-crucial-answers-for-single-brothers-part-2/ World-Class Pre-Marital Training For Practicing Muslim Singles in the West Fri, 18 May 2012 23:16:46 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 By: AbuKurrah http://practimate.com/blog/10-crucial-answers-for-single-brothers-part-2/comment-page-1/#comment-3038 AbuKurrah Wed, 16 Mar 2011 04:21:47 +0000 http://practimate.com/blog/?p=446#comment-3038 MashaAllah. Very informative. Thanks for these pointers. MashaAllah. Very informative. Thanks for these pointers.

]]> By: Bilal http://practimate.com/blog/10-crucial-answers-for-single-brothers-part-2/comment-page-1/#comment-3037 Bilal Wed, 16 Mar 2011 01:49:01 +0000 http://practimate.com/blog/?p=446#comment-3037 I totally disagree with the approach mentioned in these Q&A. It is totally against Islam that man and woman build initial relation (for sake of knowing each other)without involving their families. If girls start thinking like the way mentioned in emails and if boys have to fulfill are requirements then I am sorry the marriage ration will decrease and it will become more difficult to me marry... For potential life partner the main and important thing is his/her character mentioned by Prophet Muhammad SAWW. Rest of the things are secondary...To come to know about someone character it is not necessary you should meet with him/her or discuss. His/Her social circle and other indicators are enough o judge someone. You have mentioned in your email that they can discuss about their future plan about children etc but this is the issue that should be discussed after marriage instead of before marriage...let say they are agree for 3 kids but what if Allah don't give them any kid? or after the birth of second kid Allah give them Twin? these things should not be discussed among them. I totally disagree with the approach mentioned in these Q&A. It is totally against Islam that man and woman build initial relation (for sake of knowing each other)without involving their families. If girls start thinking like the way mentioned in emails and if boys have to fulfill are requirements then I am sorry the marriage ration will decrease and it will become more difficult to me marry…
For potential life partner the main and important thing is his/her character mentioned by Prophet Muhammad SAWW. Rest of the things are secondary…To come to know about someone character it is not necessary you should meet with him/her or discuss. His/Her social circle and other indicators are enough o judge someone.
You have mentioned in your email that they can discuss about their future plan about children etc but this is the issue that should be discussed after marriage instead of before marriage…let say they are agree for 3 kids but what if Allah don’t give them any kid? or after the birth of second kid Allah give them Twin? these things should not be discussed among them.

]]> By: UmmChandni http://practimate.com/blog/10-crucial-answers-for-single-brothers-part-2/comment-page-1/#comment-3036 UmmChandni Tue, 15 Mar 2011 18:53:13 +0000 http://practimate.com/blog/?p=446#comment-3036 Bismillaah, Alhamdulillaah. Jazakyllaah khair Sister, really appreciate your work and emails etc. Keep it up bidhnillahi ta'ala. Our men are in need of this advice. May Allaah Azzawajal accept it from you aameen, barakyllaah Feeki. Assalaamualaiakum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu =o) Bismillaah, Alhamdulillaah.

Jazakyllaah khair Sister, really appreciate your work and emails etc. Keep it up bidhnillahi ta’ala. Our men are in need of this advice.

May Allaah Azzawajal accept it from you aameen, barakyllaah Feeki.

Assalaamualaiakum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu =o)

]]> By: Mike http://practimate.com/blog/10-crucial-answers-for-single-brothers-part-2/comment-page-1/#comment-3035 Mike Tue, 15 Mar 2011 17:29:37 +0000 http://practimate.com/blog/?p=446#comment-3035 Its tough going through this... bottom line though men today have to be a lot more than their fathers ever did. We got to be stand up men, we got be sensitive, we got pitch in more... seems like men are doing a lot much more and getting less. Our mothers stayed at home, cooked, and some worked and still did all that. Our Dads just played with us and helped with homework occasionally and ruled the house ie. where to live, work, car etc... They used be married without seeing each other until the wedding day and marriage lasted 50 years till death due us apart. Wish I was one of the 7 sleepers sometimes... Wake up and go to heaven. My favorite dream... innshallah. Its tough going through this…
bottom line though men today have to be a lot more than their fathers ever did.
We got to be stand up men, we got be sensitive, we got pitch in more… seems like men are doing a lot much more and getting less.

Our mothers stayed at home, cooked, and some worked and still did all that. Our Dads just played with us and helped with homework occasionally and ruled the house ie. where to live, work, car etc…

They used be married without seeing each other until the wedding day and marriage lasted 50 years till death due us apart.

Wish I was one of the 7 sleepers sometimes…

Wake up and go to heaven. My favorite dream… innshallah.

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